A Far From Ordinary Marriage

I adore my husband and my most valuable possession is my "Brian"

Life has taken an interesting turn of events recently with the reincarnation of Stacy (who i never met - we were both in different relationships on opposite sides of the world!)

We decided not to use the name Stacy as that had many negative memories with it. But for our fresh life together Mr B's alter ego would be Mary-Jane from now on and have a much more relaxed and fun character and style compared to the Stacy in business suits trying to be accepted in a society of haters

Together we can be free to laugh and not care who sees it.

I truly believe that you find the right person for you and that gender is not relative - when you fall in love you fall in love.

I have never had a long term lesbian relationship but equally i would never have said that it wouldn't happen.

Why constrain yourself to only half the beauty in the world.

It truly is possible to be with the ones you love and love them no mater.

I married my american husband last year as a self confessed ex-TG and he promised me he wasn't gay but that it was just a phase he was going through and that he was confused. He went under the alter ego of Stacy then and lived in a america. ( he didn't push it further and i didn't ask to see any photos - he had a beard for christ-sake - i just couldn't imagine it without cracking up *giggle*)

it really didn't matter I'd only known him 2 wks and had fallen madly in love with him - he actually proposed only 4 wks later *smile*

Anyway we have been happy but I'd been feeling he wasn't fully letting go with me and our marriage was happy but there seemed something else which i couldn't put my finger on.

the end on January 08 i took him away for a romantic weekend - and asked about the cross dressing - he said he didn't need it any more and it wasn't important any more. I asked if he still thought about it and did it use to make him happy and he said yes - so not knowing whether to hit him or hug him, I said I've never asked you not to do anything that makes you happy and whatever makes you happy -that smile is just fantastic (remember that all you girls smile and you become special it makes the biggest impact and shows through your eyes) boy does it make me happy!

lots of love Chi ( Elizabeth / Mrs B ) and Mary-Jane ( Mr B)

x x x