this little bit of magic was for the sweetest 16-year-old i know. it was a tea for mothers and daughters, and her mama reminded me, “she’s not a little girl.” so we went with black and white. “think audrey hepburn having tea. think christian lacroix curling his pinkie,” the invitation read. i don’t have a girl i call my own, so all my pent-up girlie stuff oozed out.