My friend, Christina, has keep me out of the house and walking all week. While somewhat tiring, the walking has been valuable practice. More than the exercise, our excursions have kept me in circulation among social circles.
Christina, by the way, is a worldly soul, hungry for adventure, who long ago spun out of Iowa in the shape of a pretty woman with a sharp mind. She’s been following me around with a microphone and camera as she teaches herself how to be a professional documentarian. She’s like the anthropologist, I’m the pygmy. A nice benefit of our pairing has been simple friendship.
Our first field trip was to the forest in the middle of last week on a mild and sunny day. We went to one of my favorite paths, a secret jungle off Damascus-Church Road. I love to keep in touch with plant life during their springtime transformations, especially those plants from knee-height and down, a perfect activity for a slow walker like me.
I went barefoot across a little stream that ran over the path. It was a pleasure to feel the grass under my feet, even the sharp rocks felt good. I accidentally stepped on a large beetle.
On Friday night, we went to the Masters of Fine Art show at the Ackland Museum. It was neat-O because I had worked with the grad students a year earlier so everything felt familiar, but fresh to my eyes. I got to visit with colleagues, former students and associates. And, I met some new people. I wore a cap to hide my scars, although I can’t ever seem to cover the skin graft at the back of the neck. Anyway, a black cashmere cap with a thin gray band, black suit, gray t-shirt and dangly round earrings, mother of pearl like back home Bright white sneakers and a cane. I called the look “Hip-hop Indian Chic.” I had to up my look because I knew Christina was going to pull some A-list item out of her closet, and she did. She wore a simple, but daring black dress, Apache-style knee-high boots and a necklace of poker chip-sized disks of wood and nacre hung together with fine wire. It had the feeling of an earthy Caldwell mobile that came rest on her chest. I thought my earrings and her necklace had nacreous serendipity.
On Saturday afternoon we went to a block party in Durham. It was a part of community art project guided my old friend Brett Cook-Dizney. I say old friend because we showed work in a group show in New York back in 2000. We are art-world kin, brothers who keep crossing paths. Mercifully, I didn’t need to walk far, just down and up a city road for, well, a block.
Then, on Monday, 8am, my physical therapist, Val, came to fetch me for a special session. We simply walked from my house, down the long driveway, right on Fidelity Street and all the way to Main Street. When we got there, I tinked the stop sign with my cane. It was an awesome week of walking.
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My chickadee neighbors have gone quiet, even Mr. Chickadee, who was constantly delivering fluffy down to the birdhouse. I have no clue where he was finding all that material. Is there a ruptured pillow in the forest?
Well, Mr. and Mrs. Chickadee haven’t been going out. I know they’re in there. The birdhouse hangs from a branch like a pendular on a clock and the house swings when they are inside moving around. I always say, if this birdhouse is a rockin,’ don’t come a’ knockin.’