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When deciding on the particulars of the invitation, most couples turn to tradition and follow the formal etiquette.
Formal wedding invitations that follow traditional etiquette are written in third person, with social titles, and with the time and date spelled out whilst a more casual ceremony, for example, may follow the same basic format but choose to use first person and no formal titles.
The rules for the host line have relaxed as times have changed, allowing hosts other than the brides parents to be included, to allow for tricky separated family situations and to put the bride and groom on equal footing.
Below is a step by step guide, showing both traditional and contemporary options for wording you wedding invitations. Above all when choosing your wedding invitation wording you should do what makes you feel most comfortable.
Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Holmes
Request the honour of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter
Katie Ann Holmes
To Mr. Michael Edwards
Son of Mr. and Mrs. David Edwards
Host Line
Traditionally, the hosts are whoever is paying for your wedding.
Bride’s parents hosting
Mr. & Mrs. Jonathan Holmes
Bride’s and groom’s parents sharing expenses
Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Holmes
Dr. and Mrs. David Edwards
Bride’s Parents hosting; want to mention groom’s parents
Divorced parents hosting (names are listed on separate lines, mother’s name first. This example also shows option if parent has remarried)
Couple hosting
Mrs. Megan Daniels
Mr. and Mrs. Jonathan Holmes
Katie Holmes
And
Michael Edwards
Couple hosting; want to include both families
Parent has passed away
Together with their families
Katie Holmes
And
Michael Edwards
The pleasure of your company is requested
At the marriage of
Katie Ann Holmes
Daughter of Jonathan Holmes and the late Megan Holmes
To
Michael Edwards
Request Line
Invitations to ceremonies held in church usually follow conventional language, otherwise this is the one place on the invitation where you can be a little more creative.
Ceremony at a place of worship
Request the honour of your presence at the marriage of their daughter
Civil Ceremony
Request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter
Informal, parents hosting (you can be more creative here!)
Would be delighted by your presence at the wedding of their children
Informal, couple hosting
Invite you to join them in celebrating their wedding
Bride and Groom Lines
Always start with the bride’s name, you can link with “to” or “and”, and always list both names on separate lines.
Traditional (The bride’s first name stands alone; the groom’s name is titled and included his surname)
Katie Ann
to
Mr. Michael Edwards
Contemporary (You may use titles or omit them entirely)
Katie Holmes
to
Michael Edwards
Date and Time Lines
You may choose to use “in the afternoon,” “noon,” or “in the evening” in place of a.m or p.m
Traditional (the day and month are capitalised; year and time are not.)
Saturday, the twentieth of June
Two thousand and nine
At half past three in the afternoon
Contemporary
Saturday, June 20th, 2009
At 3:30 p.m
Location Line
Ceremony held in a place of worship (for formal invitations spell out common abbreviations such as “saint”)
Saint Edmund Arrowsmith’s Church
Ashton-in-Makerfield, Wigan
Ceremony in a civil location
The Garden Room
Haydock Park Race Course
Haydock, Merseyside
Reception Line
If you’re just having a drinks reception it’s a good idea to say so on the invitation so no one arrives expecting a full dinner. By using lines such as “and afterwards in the Hartley Suite for cocktails” will clarify the arrangements to your guests.
Reception and ceremony at the same location
And afterwards at the reception
Reception and ceremony at a different location
Reception immediately following the ceremony
The DeVere Hotel, Warrington
Separate reception card
Reception
seven thirty in the evening
The Thistle Hotel
Liverpool Road
Haydock, Merseyside
RSVP Line or Reply Card
It is formal to include an RSVP line on the invitation but a separate reply card may encourage a more reliable head count.
On invitation
R.S.V.P.
Separate response card
The favour of a reply is requested before the first of March
Separate fill in reply card
Please respond before the first of March
M …………………………………..
Will……attend


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