MMB Newsletter – July 9, 2009
MOVING BEYOND VANILLA
Most couples that have been together for any length of time have average, predictable sex lives. Humans are creatures of habit. And hey, if it ain’t broke, why fix it?
For some couples, this is just fine, thank you very much. Predictable works. For others, as in other areas of their lives, they need a little adventure. Just as bungee jumping or skydiving makes them feel alive and invigorated, pushing the limits with the person they’ve been having sex with week after week, year after year adds novelty and thrill.
DATING DILEMMA?
Dear Dating Girl,
I have been seeing this woman for a while and I recently found out that she had a crush on me for about a year before I actually talked to her. We’ve recently decided to just be friends because we felt like things were moving too fast. She calls me late at night to tell me her problems etc. But every time we go out together we always end up in heated conversation, flirting and eventually hugging and touching to the point that people think that we are a couple. How can I tell her I want more than just being a fling friend?
THE J SPOT
Josey’s column The J Spot appears every Tuesday in Metro newspapers in Halifax, Ottawa, Toronto, Edmonton, Calgary and Vancouver with a recently announced combined audited readership of 1,000,000. The column is Josey’s spin on sex stories in the news. This week: Sexsomnia as sexual assault defense?
OTHER PLACES TO FIND JOSEY ONLINE
Follow Josey on Twitter.com @messybed
Josey is a featured blogger on Yahoo! Canada’s lifestyle network, the 34 lifestyle site in Canada. This week: Jon & Kate Plus Hate
Josey is one of four featured bloggers on DoubleDay Book Club’s new Health & Harmony website at healthharmony.ca This month: Designer vaginas!
As a regular sex and relationship columnist on kidsaroundcanada.com.
Several of Josey’s columns have been reprinted on Alternet.org.
As an expert panelist on Birth Days now airing in England, South Africa, Finland, Thailand and Poland.
JOSEY IN THE MEDIA
•Profiled in the May issue of Montreal’s ME Magazine
•Profiled in the Workopolis section of Metro News.
•In an article about sex after 40 for More Magazine in Nov 09.
•In an article about the Turkey Dump concept in Algonquin College’s Glue Magazine in Fall 09.
•As a celebrity contributor to bestselling American author Laura Corn’s next book 100 Erotic Dares.
•Columnist and Advisory Board member for Clean Eating, a healthy eating magazine put out by Oxygen magazine.
•As a regular columnist on the lifestyle show Three Takes on Slice.
•As the regular relationship expert on Birth Days on the Slice Network daily at 11 am, repeating at 3:30pm (ET). Click for more info.
•Nominated for The Women’s Sexual Health Foundation’s first ever Media Award granted to someone who has broadened the knowledge and understanding of women's sexual health disorders and related health concerns in an accurate, balanced and sensitive way.
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Visit our sex shop for all your sex toy shopping.
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ALREADY GOT THIS TITLE? BUY A SIGNED COPY OF ONE OF JOSEY'S OTHER BOOKS!
Buy Dating: A Survival Guide From the Frontlines on her website and pay much less than you would pay in stores and have them personally signed by the author!
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