We were talking about what it means for God to be in control. We cannot look at scripture without seeing the assertions of God’s sovereignty- the fact that he reigns and rules. The question we all struggle with is what does it mean for God to be sovereign?
Trying to answer this question too definitively implies that we fully understand God, life, the world’s history, the interaction of God with people, the extent of our ‘free will’ and choices, and on and on. No, we don’t understand all this because God’s revelation is that he is sovereign without explaining everything that this revelation means.
Now, this analogy breaks down seriously because I believe that God is much more involved in human history than the analogy of a referee would imply. God also teaches us how to play, has come and played with us, and inspires good play so that we exceed how we could preform if we were completely on our own. But our “bad” plays are the ones we call despite God’s revelation through teaching, example, and inspiration.
If it is good, it is of God. If it is bad, it’s our bad.